To belong: to have the proper qualifications, especially social qualifications, to be a member of a group.
When you wander out into that big world, what are you searching for? What do you hope you will find? Are you actively seeking it out, or trusting that you will simply stumble upon it? When you find it, will you be happy? Will you feel fulfilled?
One thing I've learned- no matter what you do or where you go, everything has slightly less shine if you're alone. Humans were not made to be solitary creatures. That is why our very souls crave companionship. Our hearts ache for the feeling that comes with being truly accepted; being in the right place with the right people. And when you miss the mark, it can be heartbreaking.
One of the toughest things in life is finding your "people." You know, the "people" you always hear about, the ones who love you unconditionally and "always have your back." The ones who "really get" you. You can surround yourself with lots of people, but if they're not the right ones, everything feels just a bit off. You make a joke no one laughs at; you believe something that others strongly oppose; you'd never do something that others regularly practice... Sometimes you find yourself in a crowd and realize you're "the only one."
I'm not saying it's not okay to be different. Differences are a beautiful thing. But if you haven't found that place where you belong, the differences only serve to make hope seem farther away. When you belong somewhere, you have an opportunity to build trust and community. Without those things, you are vulnerable to all the woes of the world.
All it takes is one smile, one laugh, one nod of approval to shift the way you see the world and yourself. I would encourage everyone to notice your surroundings. Be more aware of the affect you have on others. Don't blunder through life oblivious to the fact that you are making a difference- although positive or negative is up to you. I'm sure you've felt like the odd man out at some point, but if not, try to imagine. Give smiles. Laugh at an awkward joke. Make an effort.
And please, pardon my randomness.
Live and love,
Katey ❤️
Isaiah 14:27
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